Cherryl Duncan
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Cherryl Duncan
Coach, Author, Speaker

Calling the woman who always gets it done
but secretly wants to be held for once.

You’ve mastered independence.

Now it’s time to master receiving.

 

Your key?

Embodying feminine influence that doesn’t require performance.

In my private coaching container, we unravel the old identity of over-giving, over-functioning, and over-performing — and rewire your nervous system for power that’s felt, not forced.

This is for the woman who:

Wants men to show up — but without micromanaging the process
Craves support — but fears it will come with strings attached
Desires to feel adored, safe, and sovereign — without shrinking or sacrificing her edge

Inside our 1:1 work, we go beyond mindset hacks and into embodied feminine strategy.
Because it’s not that you’re too much.
It’s that you’ve been playing a role that was never yours to begin with.

🕊 You don’t need to become someone new.
You need to return to the woman you were before you stopped asking for what you wanted.

What’s the ONLY difference between a woman who feels…

Deeply met, cherished, and supported by life…

(even when she’s not “doing it all”)

…and one who feels invisible, overextended, and resentful?

her internal code for receiving.

Because true feminine power isn’t about doing more.
It’s about being anchored in your worth — without needing to prove it.

In this private coaching container, we unwind the conditioning that’s made you feel like softness is dangerous, that asking is unsafe, or that ease is something you have to earn.

Together, we rewire your relationship to:

Receiving — without guilt, delay, or apology
Power — without performance
Influence — without sacrificing your softness

You don’t need to fix yourself.

You need to remember who you are when you’re no longer in survival mode.

 

 IF YOU GUESSED

learning the “perfect” script to say the right thing at the right time…

you’d be wrong.

 

AND IF YOU GUESSED

fixing your femininity, healing harder, or waiting until you're “fully ready”…

you’d be wrong.

 

AND IF YOU GUESSED

working on your confidence, boundaries, or self-worth alone...

you’d be wrong.

 

AND IF YOU GUESSED

getting him to finally change so you can feel safe to soften…

you’d be wrong.

 

Because while those things have their place…

They’re only part of the story.

 

The unfiltered truth?

 

Unless you’re leading with embodied feminine strategy —
clarity in your desires, power in your presence, and openness to receive...

The version of you doing everything right (but still feeling unseen and unsupported)

will at best, feel like she’s constantly giving...
with very little coming back.

(A compliment here... a maybe later there... breadcrumbs instead of devotion).

And at worst?
She’ll shrink her wants, soften her voice, and settle for the version of life that looks “successful” on paper —
but leaves her quietly aching for more.

 

the moment that

changed everything
FOR ME.

(and still makes me ache when I remember how hard I thought I had to fight…)

 
 

You’ve probably experienced this before.

Maybe more times than you’d like to admit.

You wanted to be soft.
You wanted to trust.
You tried to receive.

But no matter how open you were —
how much space you made —
how much grace you gave —

…he/life still couldn’t meet you there.

Because, in my mind...

There’s nothing worse than being invisible.

It’s a situation that can make you feel like you should just give up on men, on life, and on ever asking for anything again.

Like maybe doing it all on your own is just safer.

When I was building my business during COVID,
I did it all in my masculine.

I launched. I pushed. I carried the whole thing on my own.

 

I wouldn’t ask for help —
Not in business, and definitely not in love.

Even when support was offered, I’d brush it off.
Because somewhere deep down, I believed needing help made me weak.
Or worse… meant I was failing.

So I did what I’d always done —

Held the emotional labour, the workload, the pressure to get it right.

Alone.

And that pattern didn’t just burn me out in business —
It showed up in every relationship.

Because when asking feels unsafe,
receiving becomes impossible.

 

With all the energy you’ve spent trying to hold it all together —
in business, in love, in the face of constant pressure to “have it handled”…

The quiet shame you’ve carried when asking for help felt like failure,
and the pride you swallowed when you did ask —
only to feel let down again.

All those moments taught you one thing: It’s safer not to need anyone.

But what if that belief is the very thing keeping you stuck?

Not just in your business —
but in the way you relate to men, money, and your own power to receive.

…isn’t it about time you became

a woman who’s deeply supported, generously adored,
and effortlessly provided for?

Money moves toward you.
And men rise to meet your influence — not resist it.

With all the self-work you’ve done…
With all the proving and performing you’ve outgrown…

Isn’t it about time you became

a woman who’s deeply supported, generously adored,
and effortlessly provided for?

Where money flows toward you with ease.
And where men rise to meet your presence — not shrink from your power.

Because receiving doesn’t mean losing your edge.
It means claiming your throne.

 

In a moment, I’m going to show you how to finally unlock influence that draws in clients, cash, and connection — without the burnout.

(AKA your one-way ticket to full-spectrum feminine power.)

But first, there are a few things I want to clear up…

 
 

Here are 4 beliefs you need to release — now

if you want to become the kind of woman who effortlessly attracts aligned clients, magnetic opportunities, and the kind of wealth that matches your worth.

 

Myth #1

You have to do it all alone to prove you’re powerful.

False.

You’ve been celebrated for your strength.
Applauded for how much you can carry.
Admired for how little you need.

But if you’re honest?
The independence feels more like isolation.
The self-sufficiency feels more like shutdown.

And deep down — you crave to be held.
In your business. In your relationships. In your rising.

Here’s the truth:
Power doesn’t come from doing it alone.
It comes from choosing the right kind of support — and letting it in.

You don’t need another freebie or funnel.
You need strategy and softness.
Structure and devotion.
To let yourself be led, loved, and lifted — without apology.

Because you weren’t built to burn out proving you can handle it all.
You were born to rise inside systems that hold you while you do.

Myth #2

You have to prove yourself to be provided for.

False.

I know — you’ve been taught that your value is something you earn.
That love, attention, and income are rewards for performance.

But you’re not here to be chosen for how well you contort.
You’re here to be cherished for how deeply you allow.

Provision isn’t a prize for perfection.
It’s a byproduct of presence.

Here’s what actually unlocks abundance in clients and connection:

✨ Messaging that mirrors the truth of who you are
✨ Boundaries that raise your energetic standards
✨ Safety in your body to receive more, without scrambling to deserve it

When you anchor in your worth, your world rearranges to meet you.
Because magnetism has never been about earning.

It’s always been about embodying.

Myth #3

There’s no one out there who can meet you — or pay you.

False.

You’ve been told you’re too much for some.
Too deep. Too driven. Too direct. Too divine.

But “too much” is just code for “I’m not capable of holding you.”

And you’ve internalized that —
In your business: lowering your rates or overdelivering to be chosen.
In your relationships: downplaying your desires or doing the emotional labor yourself.

But let me be clear:
There are clients and partners who want the most of you.
Not the watered-down version.
Not the palatable version.
The fully expressed, fully received, fully radiant version.

You don’t need to shrink to scale.
You don’t need to dim to date.
You just need to stop settling for those who aren’t equipped to rise to your level.

They exist.
Let them find you.

Myth #4

If you want to be supported, you have to sacrifice your standards.

False.

Somewhere along the way, you learned that softness meant settling.
That receiving meant compromising.
That love — or success — only came when you lowered your expectations.

So you started to accept almosts.
Almost committed clients.
Almost available men.
Almost enough income.

But here’s the truth:
Support isn’t the opposite of sovereignty. It’s what strengthens it.

You can be fully held and still lead.
Fully adored and still assertive.
Fully provided for — without ever apologizing for your power.

The more you raise your standards, the more the right people rise to meet them.

 

THE TRUTH IS…

Becoming a woman who is deeply supported, generously adored,
and effortlessly provided for is much simpler than you think.

And if you’ve made it this far,
you already know that well resourced for your brilliance
and deeply supported in your feminine power
isn’t just a luxury — it’s a lifestyle you’re meant to have.

I don’t need to remind you of that.

But maybe you don’t yet realize what becomes possible
when you unlock your full magnetism using the principles I teach inside

THE COURTESAN’S CODE™

(more on that in a moment…)

 

You’ll also get to experience these benefits:

💎The skill of emotional alchemy — so rejection never rattles your worth again.
💎The art of receiving — support, money, devotion — without guilt, feeling indepted, dependent or upsetting the power dynamics in your relationship
💎The power to melt anyone’s resistance —

This isn’t about learning how to push harder.

It’s about becoming the kind of woman who attracts more…
by embodying more of who she truly is.

 

TESTIMONIALS

These outcomes are possible for you.

 

…whether you’re in a relationship, marriage, or situationship — and you’re doing everything to make it work, but still feel unseen, underappreciated, or emotionally overdrawn.

OR

…you’re single and exhausted by dating — swiping, initiating, holding space — and wondering if it’s even worth it, when you always seem to attract men who ghost, breadcrumb, or disappoint.

It comes from becoming magnetic — from the inside out.

A recalibration that draws in devotion without needing to overgive.

A new paradigm where:

💎 Your energy becomes the invitation
💎 You’re pursued, cherished, and chosen — not managed, misunderstood, or minimized
💎 You attract (or transform) masculine presence through your feminine power — not performance

 

You can be the woman who’s

seen, desired, and quietly irresistible

without needing to prove your worth, overgive, or carry the emotional load of your relationship.

 

If you want to stop overfunctioning, reconnect with your feminine power, and finally feel what it’s like to get exactly what it is you want—
then I couldn’t be more excited to introduce you to…

The Courtesan’s Code

A private coaching immersion to help you shift from overlooked and overgiving…
to magnetic, nourished, and unmistakably adored.

REVEALING: YOUR KEY TO BECOMING THE WOMAN WHO EVOKES DEVOTION WITHOUT CHASING IT

The Courtesan’s Code™

The only private coaching experience you need to stop overfunctioning in love and become

magnetic, nourished, and unmistakably irresistible

Without dimming your needs, shrinking your standards, or becoming someone you’re not.

In just 3 months, I went from feeling invisible in love to being fully resourced, pursued, and deeply respected — without chasing or shrinking myself.

And I’ve since helped countless women remember the magnetic power of their presence, too.

WOMEN WHO ARE IN RELATIONSHIPS THAT LOOK FINE ON THE OUTSIDE

But feel like they’re carrying the emotional weight of two people — wondering when it will be their turn to be held, seen, and cherished…


WOMEN WHO ARE SUCCESSFUL IN LIFE BUT STRUGGLING IN LOVE

They’ve done the therapy, read the books, communicated their needs — and still end up overgiving, misunderstood, or attracting emotionally unavailable men…


WOMEN WHO KNOW THEY’RE POWERFUL, BUT FEEL UNRECOGNIZED IN ROMANTIC DYNAMICS

They sense there’s another way — one where love flows to them, devotion is drawn to them, and they no longer have to hustle for connection or dim their light to be chosen.

A proven path to stop overfunctioning and start receiving —
so you can finally feel seen, supported, and softly pursued
by men, opportunities and friends who meet your depth without making you earn it.

All through simple but potent energetic recalibrations
that restore your magnetism — without making you work harder for love and wealth.

 

Introducing your Feminine Influence Coach

For years, I wore self-sufficiency like armor.

I believed that if I wanted respect, success, or safety… I had to earn it on my own.
So I did. I moved to another country. Built my life from scratch.
Didn’t ask for help — even when I desperately needed it.
Because somewhere deep down, I thought the only love worth having was the kind I didn’t need to rely on.

But the more I achieved, the more invisible I felt.
I could handle everything — and I did.
But I was also quietly aching to be held. Supported. Seen.

It wasn’t until I let go of the belief that power meant doing it all
and began reclaiming the power of being — that everything changed.

Now, I help other women unlearn the hustle for love,
so they can become magnetic to the very support, safety, and soul-adoration they’ve always deserved.

 

I was burnt out from years of striving, proving, and doing it all alone.

So I stepped away from the world I’d built —
and took time off to finally ask:
What am I actually longing for?

I immersed myself in groups of women.
I dove deep into Jungian psychology — especially the work of Marian Woodman.
I began working closely with my dreams —
and one night, I was visited by a courtesan.

That dream changed everything.

I started researching her world.
The women who moved kingdoms with a glance.
The ones who knew how to be adored without effort, resourced without guilt, and influential without control.

I realized:

They were never trying to be enough.
They were simply being themselves — in full power, presence, and pleasure.

So I began writing.
Pouring everything I’d uncovered into a book about what these women got right in love, power, pleasure, and influence.

The book is with publishers now…

But I couldn’t wait.

This work is too important.
Too timely.
Too needed.

So I created The Courtesan’s Code
— to begin teaching and coaching women now.

Because we were never meant to prove our worth through exhaustion.
We were meant to receive everything through resonance.

Fast forward to today

I’ve helped women shift from invisible and overfunctioning… to magnetic, nourished, and quietly powerful in love.

Without betraying their needs, lowering their standards, or waiting around for someone else to change.

This is possible for you too — and it doesn’t have to mean doing more.
Becoming magnetic in love can start with subtle but powerful inner shifts:
A recalibration of your energy.
A return to your essence.
And a remembrance of your power to evoke devotion — just by being.

I know you’ve carried so much.
You don’t need to carry this alone anymore.

Are you ready for me to show you how?

Finally feel the way you’ve always wanted to feel in love.

BE PURSUED WITHOUT PRETENDING.
BE HELD WITHOUT HAVING TO HOLD EVERYTHING TOGETHER.
BECOME MAGNETIC WITHOUT LOSING YOURSELF.

Why keep waiting for the love you crave to magically appear or for someone else to finally “get it”?
Inside The Courtesan’s Code, you’ll learn how to shift the energy, reclaim your power, and become the woman love rises to meet.

The Courtesan’s Code 1:1 Coaching Program is perfect for you if

You’re ready for high-touch, high-feminine coaching that supports you in becoming magnetic in love — not by doing more, but by shifting your energy, reclaiming your power, and embodying your full presence.

You want personalized support as you break old patterns, receive deep relational recalibration, and start experiencing the kind of devotion, softness, and support you’ve always longed for.

 

What’s Included

90-Day Private Coaching Immersion

1 x Weekly 1:1 Private Coaching Call

Intimate, transformational sessions tailored to your specific relational patterns, emotional edges, and magnetic embodiment.

Monday–Friday Voxer Access

Ongoing, in-the-moment support between sessions — ask questions, share breakthroughs, or receive powerful reframes as you navigate real-life dynamics.

Lifetime Access to The Courtesan’s Code Curriculum

A self-paced portal of rituals, frameworks, and feminine teachings you can return to again and again.

“Here’s what you’ll walk away with”

You’ll feel emotionally resourced instead of emotionally drained
You’ll be desired for who you are, not what you do
You’ll finally know how to hold your standards and your softness

 

Module One

Painting Your Desire Landscape

Before we shift how others relate to you, we begin by coming home to your own desires. This module is about reconnecting with what you truly want — not what’s safe, acceptable, or strategic — but what deeply turns you on, lights you up, and anchors you in truth.

You’ll learn how to name, claim, and normalize your deepest desires — without guilt, self-doubt, or needing to explain yourself.

🌹 Reclaim your right to want more without feeling selfish, shameful, or too much

🌹 Identify the hidden desires you’ve been taught to suppress — from emotional safety to erotic sovereignty

🌹 Implement a Desire Excavation ritual to clarify what you want to feel, receive, and attract — in love, intimacy, power, and pleasure

🌹 Learn the embodiment practice of “Legitimising” so you stop second-guessing yourself and start trusting the wisdom of your want

Module Two

The Art of Emotional Alchemy

After reconnecting with your desires, we move into the heart of feminine power — your emotional world. This is where you’ll learn how to stop managing your emotions and start alchemizing them into clarity, radiance, and resonance.

Because emotions aren’t problems to fix. They’re energy to move — and power to claim.

🌹Learn the alchemy of every emotional state — from grief to grounded confidence, sadness to exquisite and beautiful longing — and how each one carries a coded message from your feminine

🌹Discover your unique emotional expression style so you can work with your body, not against it, when processing intense experiences

🌹Learn the art of Persona Play— Access and embody the different feminine archetypes within you — so you can shift your energy with intention and become unforgettable in any room.

🌹Transform your emotional presence into a magnetic field — so you’re not drained by your feelings, but charged by them.

This module isn’t about avoiding your emotions.
It’s about awakening your relationship with them — and becoming the woman who turns feeling into feminine power.

Module Three

The Art of the Ask

Influence, Invitation & Melting Resistance

Now that you’re anchored in your desire, attuned to your emotional power, and embodied in your feminine range — it’s time to master the subtle energetics of receiving what you want.

This module teaches you how to influence without force, lead without control, and make clear asks without collapsing into apology or overexplanation.

🌹Learn the art of invitation over persuasion — how to guide others through energy, not pressure

🌹Understand the nervous system response to requests — and how to create safety in your presence so others naturally soften and say yes

🌹Master the energetics of the ask — how to make requests, set boundaries, and express desires in ways that open hearts, not defenses

🌹Dissolve resistance without giving up your standards — and become a woman whose influence is felt before she speaks

This is where your magnetism becomes relational.
Not just in how you feel — but in how others respond to you.

Module Four

The Art of No

Boundaries, Rejection & Staying When You Want to Run

This is where the rubber meets the heart. You’ll learn how to stay grounded and magnetic — even in moments of rejection, discomfort, or conflict.

Because power isn’t just in the yes.
It’s in how you respond to the no.

🌹Learn how to receive a “no” without making it mean anything about your worth — and how to stay emotionally anchored when things don’t go your way

🌹Practice the art of saying “no” with grace and power — so you can hold boundaries without guilt, apology, or needing to overexplain

🌹Discover nervous system rituals that help you stay when your impulse is to shut down, overfunction, or walk away too quickly

🌹Build your conversational resilience — so you know how to keep the connection alive, even when things feel tender, uncertain, or off-script

This is where your devotion to yourself gets tested — and deepened.
Because the woman who can hold the “no”… often becomes the woman who gets the deepest yes.

Module Five

The Art of Persona Play

Feminine Archetypes, Embodied Expression & Power on Command

This is where we explore your multidimensionality — and use it to your advantage. When emotions feel too big or actions feel out of reach, persona play becomes a bridge. It gives you the freedom to try on new energies, explore suppressed parts, and unlock bold moves you once believed “weren’t you.”

Because the truth is: You contain multitudes. And the more of you you access — the more magnetic you become.

💃 Meet your inner archetypes — from the Siren to the Shadow Queen — and understand how each one holds power, influence, and relational intelligence

💃 Use persona play to shift dynamics in real-time — in dating, love, sex, and boundaries — without losing your sense of self

💃 Create emotional space to take bolder action — by embodying “her” when it feels scary to be fully you

💃 Craft your personalized Persona Deck — so you can call on specific feminine frequencies when you need courage, sensuality, softness, or edge

This isn’t about pretending.
It’s about becoming — the woman you already are, just waiting to be unleashed.

Module Six

The Embodied Receiver

Integration, Devotion & Becoming the Woman Life Rises to Meet

This is the moment where everything settles into your body.
Where receiving no longer feels like a risk — but like a rhythm.
Where you stop performing for love, and start presiding in it.

In this final module, you’ll integrate the courtesan codes into your daily life, relationships, and rituals — not as something you practice, but as someone you become.

🌸 Refine your new energetic set point so your nervous system feels safe with ease, attention, intimacy, and abundance

🌸 Learn the art of sustained receiving — so you don’t sabotage or shrink when love and success finally comes

🌸 Embody the frequency of “I get to have this” — and watch how the world begins to respond to you accordingly

This is the final step —
Not to do more, but to become more of who you were before the world taught you to prove, please, or perform.

The woman who evokes devotion just by being in the room.

What if I can’t count on my partner (or anyone) to support me right now?

I see you.

You’ve probably built your life on being the one others depend on — not the one who gets to lean.
And the idea of being “in your feminine” might feel risky if there’s no one there to catch you.

That’s exactly why this work matters.
Because being in your feminine isn’t about depending on others — it’s about no longer abandoning yourself.

You’ll build emotional resources, energetic clarity, and embodied practices that make you your safest home — no matter who is or isn’t available to support you.

WHAT IF I BECOME TOO DEPENDENT IF I LEAN INTO MY FEMININE ENERGY?

This is one of the biggest myths — and deepest fears — for high-functioning women.
You’ve been taught that power = control, and that receiving = weakness.

But the truth is:
It takes more strength to receive with grace than to grip out of fear.

Inside The Courtesan’s Code, you’ll learn how to access a kind of feminine power that doesn’t rely on performance, people-pleasing, or hyper-independence.
It’s not about collapsing into helplessness — it’s about finally letting yourself be met.

WHAT IF EVERYONE NEEDS ME MORE THAN I CAN LEAN ON THEM?

Then this work is especially for you.
Because when you’ve been cast as “the strong one,” it’s easy to forget you’re allowed to have needs, too.

This program won’t ask you to abandon those you care for.
It will help you stop abandoning yourself.

You’ll learn how to hold boundaries with softness, honor your needs without guilt, and stop sourcing your worth from how much you do for others.

WHAT IF MY LIFE LOOKS GOOD ON THE OUTSIDE, BUT I FEEL NUMB INSIDE?

You’re not alone in that.
Many of the women I work with have “checked all the boxes” — the job, the relationship, the home — and still feel something is missing.

That’s because they’ve built a life around being competent…
not being connected.
Not being seen.

The Courtesan’s Code helps you feel again — not just emotionally, but energetically.
You’ll reconnect with your desire, your expression, your inner aliveness — and begin making decisions from pleasure, not pressure.

WHAT IF I’VE DONE ALL THE WORK (THERAPY, ATTACHMENT THEORY, INNER CHILD HEALING…) AND I’M STILL STRUGGLING IN LOVE?

First of all — you’ve done so well.
And if nothing’s shifted yet, it’s not because you’re broken.
It’s because you’ve been taught to relate from your head — when the shift needs to happen in your energy.

This isn’t more mindset work.
It’s not more intellectual analysis.

It’s nervous system attunement.
It’s archetypal embodiment.
It’s learning how to be seen, heard, and held — without having to explain yourself.

The Courtesan’s Code is for you if…

✅ You’re the woman who knows how to get results — but it’s not translating in your love life.

You’ve achieved, organized, anticipated, and held it all together — but relationships still leave you feeling unseen, underwhelmed, or like you’re working harder than him.
You're ready to stop managing and start magnetizing.

✅ You’re done overexplaining, overfunctioning, and overthinking.

You’ve tried to communicate better. You’ve stayed calm. You’ve done your part.
Now you’re ready to learn the actual tools that shift power dynamics and put you back in your seat of influence.

✅ You’ve sensed there’s a hidden language of feminine power… and you want the keys.

The women who seem to “have it”? They’re not doing more. They’ve mastered how to be seen.
You’re ready to learn what they know — and finally stop wondering what you’re missing.

✅ You want to be the one who is remembered. Craved. Respected.

Not for what you give or do, but for the energy you command when you enter the room.
You’re ready to be the woman who evokes devotion — without lifting a finger.

✅ You don’t need another theory — you want tools that work.

You’re ready to shift your energy, your communication, and your presence so that men (and the world) respond differently.
This isn’t mindset fluff. This is strategy — rooted in feminine intelligence.

You’re ready for refined guidance that gives you the edge.

You don’t need fixing. You need access. Access to the codes, tools, and rituals that elevate how you move — in relationships, conversations, and power dynamics.

On the other hand, The Courtesan’s Code™ is not for you if…

❌ You’re looking for surface-level dating tips and quick-fix scripts.

This isn’t about what to text or how to play games. This is deep reorientation — the kind that shifts your energy, presence, and patterns for good.

❌ You’re not willing to get honest about your current dynamics.

If you want to keep blaming others without ever looking at what you’re reinforcing, this container won’t serve you. Power requires self-responsibility.

❌ You’re not open to challenging internalized patriarchy or rewriting outdated rules.

If you're still attached to being chosen, proving your worth, or shrinking to make others comfortable — this work may feel confronting. But it will also set you free.

❌ You’re uncomfortable with women who own their seduction, intelligence, or power.

This space honors the full spectrum of the feminine — from softness to sensuality to unapologetic clarity. If that intimidates you, you might not be ready.

❌ You’re hoping to be rescued instead of activated.

This work will not coddle you — it will wake you up to the potency you’ve always had. But you have to be willing to do the inner + outer work.

❌ You’re looking for someone else to lead your life for you.

The Courtesan doesn’t outsource her power — she cultivates it. If you’re not ready to lead yourself differently, this probably isn’t your moment. Yet.

The Courtesan’s Code™ is your invitation to step into untouchable feminine influence — the kind that shifts rooms, relationships, and results.

If you’re done bending to dynamics that dim your brilliance…
If you’re ready to be the woman who owns the room without raising her voice…
If there’s a quiet knowing that you were never meant to play small — in love, in power, or in life…

Then this isn’t just a course. It’s a reclamation.

This is your moment.
Will you rise to meet it?